This experiential is to support healing and receiving of the gifts and beauty from a relationship has ended so that you can integrate this embodied knowledge into your being.

This is an experiential that is paired with the main episode 70: Good Grief: Honoring Relationships Ending you can find that full episode and 3 more explorations at CandiceWu.com/relationshipsending.

 

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📝https://candicewu.com/ep70

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🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

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Sponsored by YOU, my Listeners

Thank YOU, listeners, for your support!

If the Embody Podcast has inspired you, helped, or spoken to you, it would mean the world to me if you would show your support through a contribution on Patreon.

Each episode is a lovingly made from my soul and takes anywhere from weeks to a few days to develop and produce. I gladly pay an editor who supports me in polishing and creating high-quality episodes.

As little as $1 a month would nourish the podcast to continue to have life and cover the costs. Plus you’ll receive some sweet personalized healing gifts from me that can deepen your embodiment on your own journey. I am excited to share these with you.

I am so appreciative that you are considering supporting me in this way.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤

 

Show Notes

0:00 Intro

1:31 Opening

8:14 Experiential

Our relationships show us places in ourselves that our soul desires us to love or claim. The endings of a relationship, which may have brought both beauty and pain, can bring us that opportunity. Whether it is an ending or shift present or past, in an intimate relationship, family, collegial or friendship, we have another opportunity to return to loving ourselves.

In this podcast, I share my personal story of my recent relationship ending, how I am honoring it and the pockets of pain and beliefs that I had the opportunity to look at. I talk about how we can see our relationships as places for powerful healing and wisdom, four places we get stuck in grieving or moving forward into new relationships, getting unstuck from beliefs that keep us in lack, and how the mind and soul can be on different agendas.

Then join me in the healing experientials that support integrating and claiming the beauty and love from the relationship, healing any pain or wounds, self-forgiveness in your part of the relationship and excavating the beliefs that emerged, making space for the new, playfulness and life.

 

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📝https://candicewu.com/ep70

 Podcast Homepage

🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

Patreon – Your Support Means So Much!

💝 https://candicewu.com/patreon

Candice Wu Page on Facebook

👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNature

Follow Candice on Instagram

📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature

 

Sponsored by YOU, my Listeners

Thank YOU, listeners, for your support!

If the Embody Podcast has inspired you, helped, or spoken to you, it would mean the world to me if you would show your support through a contribution on Patreon.

Each episode is a lovingly made from my soul and takes anywhere from weeks to a few days to develop and produce. I gladly pay an editor who supports me in polishing and creating high-quality episodes.

As little as $1 a month would nourish the podcast to continue to have life and cover the costs. Plus you’ll receive some sweet personalized healing gifts from me that can deepen your embodiment on your own journey. I am excited to share these with you.

I am so appreciative that you are considering supporting me in this way.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart! ❤

 

Show Notes

00:00 Intro

00:54 Sponsored by People Like You

02:14 Opening — Ending Relationships Is Present All Around Me

03:36 People Say: Grief Takes Its Own Process and It Never Ends

04:47 Overview for This Episode

05:27 Charmayne “Where There Isn’t Loving, There Is Something Else to Be Learned”

05:55 Our Soul Is on a Journey to Be Loved Inside and Outside

09:33 My Previous Partner — Christoph

11:20 the Honoring of Our Relationship

17:58 the Ending of the Relationship and My Grieving in the Process

20:09 What I Found Out While I Was Grieving

21:57 Wondering “Does He Really Love Me?” + Healing

24:16 Our Relationships Are Deeply Sensitive and Vulnerable

24:50 Spiritual Service Satsang / Relationship Comes With Two Partners Who Are Connected in Each Lesson

26:07 How to Grieve and Glean the Wisdom From the Relationship

26:25 That This Relationship Has Something to Show to You

27:18 Getting Unstuck: #1 - Beliefs Like "This Is How It Is for Me” or “I Always Get Left,” Etc.

31:04 Getting Unstuck: #2 “No Other Person Will Be as Good for Me as This Last Partner”

34:01 Experientials: Integrate, Embody, and Making Space for All Possibility

35:03 The Push to Move Forward as Soon as Possible // Claiming the Beauty of the Relationship

37:30 Getting Unstuck: #3 the Soul and Mind Having Two Separate Agendas

44:53 Heartache and Pain: An Opportunity for Healing

45:55 Getting Unstuck: #4 the Mind and Ego Agenda Can Try to Make Things Permanent

46:43 Choosing the Surrender to the Souls Journey to Love

47:34 Finding the Life That Is Here

49:56 Embody Podcast Episode: The Past Is Over

50:15 Experientials Connected to This Episode

51:22 Give Yourself Tenderness and Time

52:45 Outro & Sharing Love

53:51 Embody Newsletter

In this episode I talk about relationships being a mirror and my adventures in leaving the Horse Farm in Ireland back in January – what happened and some clips of my private spoken journal from that time, getting cornered by my host, my experiences with horses blowing me off when I ask them to do something and how I overcame it.

Plus, my process in choosing a kind and pleasurable learning situation over one I needed to endure and how relationships serve to show us where we are still needing to learn to love, giving us an opportunity to love ourselves and others more deeply.

A Little About A{Live} Now

I’ve found that when I share what’s true in the moment, there is so much ALIVENESS and fullness in me.

That’s why I started the A{Live} Now mini-series, which is within the Embody Podcast. This is the second episode and I intend to share what’s happening in my real life and in my inner world, what’s truly full and alive now.

What’s alive now in me has often been what’s filled the juicy stuff of life: themes, joys, or challenges that others may also be experiencing, a fear and other emotions that bring me to the edge of my fullest expression in the moment.

As you listen, I will also share snippets of how you can support your own heart and soul, know yourself, be your fullest, or heal and love yourself.

 

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📝https://candicewu.com/ep69

 Podcast Homepage

🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

Patreon – Your Support Means So Much!

💝 https://candicewu.com/patreon

Candice Wu Page on Facebook

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Follow Candice on Instagram

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Sponsored by Humans Like You

This episode is sponsored by supporters on Patreon. I appreciate all the love and contributions on Patreon, which all go towards the production of the podcast and all the creations, meditations, and healing experiences that you can access on the Embody Podcast. If this has inspired, touched, or supported you, please consider supporting the continuation and life of the podcast.

Learn more at CandiceWu.com/patreon.

 

Show Notes

00:00 Intro

00:52 Opening

02:03 Spoken Word Journal & Encouragement to Share

04:29 January 26th - Getting Cornered & Experiencing Stronger Boundaries

10:36 Greediness & Enoughness

13:08 Working With the Alpha Horse / Establishing Leadership

19:04 Everything Was Overwhelmed All at Once (Learning, the Space, Personal Conflict, and So Much)

21:32 The Most Important Question: Why Am I Enduring This?

23:33 I Don’t Have to Learn in All Areas of Life Right Now

24:54 Taking a Step to Go Home & Enjoy

26:11 Newsletter: Inner Freedom, Enjoyment, and Manifesting

26:55 Skipping Over the Good Things

28:00 Reflecting on the Endings: What We Attract in Relationships

31:47 Relationships for More Self Loving

35:13 Recovering With a New Teacher & Horsemanship Lessons Back in Michigan

39:17 My Connection With Horses is Growing

39:44 The Last Day in Ireland: A New Connection With a Different Teacher

40:47 My Horse Adventures Continue

41:54 Following Podcast About Relationship Endings

43:21 Gratitude & Appreciation

Please join Bianka for a NARM (Neuro-Affective Relational Model) exercise that is focused on connection and can facilitate a deep sense of settling.

Bianka Hardin, Psy.D. is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and owner of Centered Therapy Chicago. Dr. Hardin founded CTC in 2014 with the mission to help children, adolescents, and adults improve their mental health and quality of life. Dr. Hardin provides individual and family therapy as well as supervision and consultation services. She also presents in the community on issues related to parenting, child abuse prevention, self-care, mindfulness, trauma stewardship, and cultural issues. She enjoys working with clients who are in the mental health field who could benefit from getting additional support in the important work they are doing, who are struggling with vicarious trauma or burnout, or who are interested receiving case consultation or support in their own professional development. She utilizes a mind/body/spirit approach and is comfortable supplementing traditional psychotherapy with mindfulness, relational interventions, and body focused psychotherapy such as Somatic Experiencing (SE) or Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM).

You can find the full interview on the Embody Podcast or at candicewu.com/bianka.

 

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📝https://candicewu.com/bianka

 Podcast Homepage

🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

Patreon – Your Support Means So Much!

💝 https://candicewu.com/patreon

Candice Wu Page on Facebook

👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNature

Follow Candice on Instagram

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Sponsored by the Embodied Healing Group Call

This episode is supported by the Embodied Healing Group Call - this is a transformative way to both receive healing support at a lower cost than individual sessions AND support my work/podcast.

In each online call, you’ll receive loving support in moving through your emotions, tuning into your intuition and developing your empowerment with body wisdom, and clearing limiting beliefs through your entire being. We open up to what your soul, body, or heart want to explore and allow the magic of your being to show us what’s needed.

Find it by contributing at the $55 level on Patreon (candicewu.com/patreon).

 

Show Notes

0:00 Intro

1:12 Opening by Bianka

2:10 Experiential

8:17 Outro by Candice

I’d like to welcome to the podcast Bianka Hardin, my friend, colleague, and previous supervisor when I was a holistic psychotherapist. Bianka taught me the lived experience of self-care, intention, and the power of visualization.

Listen in on our unique story of synchronicity in each other’s lives plus a rich conversation about:

  • Bianka’s journey into developing more safety and enjoyment in her body and working with anxieties and fears
  • Exploring trust and mistrust
  • The profound experience of realizing she was holding someone else’s fear
  • Bianka’s personal journey into exploring the truth of the untold ancestral story as half German and half from the South
  • How to connect with your her own desires as an empathic person
  • Personal agency and how we can get in our own way
  • What the body-centered and relational model of NARM (Neuro-Affective Relational Model) offers
  • When you feel you’ve had a set back it could actually be the natural contraction that happens after expansion

Bianka Hardin, Psy.D. is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and owner of Centered Therapy Chicago. Dr. Hardin founded CTC in 2014 with the mission to help children, adolescents, and adults improve their mental health and quality of life. Dr. Hardin provides individual and family therapy as well as supervision and consultation services. She also presents in the community on issues related to parenting, child abuse prevention, self-care, mindfulness, trauma stewardship, and cultural issues. She enjoys working with clients who are in the mental health field who could benefit from getting additional support in the important work they are doing, who are struggling with vicarious trauma or burnout, or who are interested receiving case consultation or support in their own professional development. She utilizes a mind/body/spirit approach and is comfortable supplementing traditional psychotherapy with mindfulness, relational interventions, and body focused psychotherapy such as Somatic Experiencing (SE) or Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM).

 

Links, Article, and Resources

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📝https://candicewu.com/bianka

 Podcast Homepage

🎧 https://candicewu.com/podcast

Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

Patreon – Your Support Means So Much!

💝 https://candicewu.com/patreon

Candice Wu Page on Facebook

👫 https://facebook.com/EmbodyYourNature

Follow Candice on Instagram

📷 https://instagram.com/EmbodyYourNature

 

Sponsored by the Embodied Healing Group Call

This episode is supported by the Embodied Healing Group Call - this is a transformative way to both receive healing support at a lower cost than individual sessions AND support my work/podcast.

In each online call, you’ll receive loving support in moving through your emotions, tuning into your intuition and developing your empowerment with body wisdom, and clearing limiting beliefs through your entire being. We open up to what your soul, body, or heart want to explore and allow the magic of your being to show us what’s needed.

Find it by contributing at the $55 level on Patreon (candicewu.com/patreon).

 

Show Notes

00:00 Intro

00:58 Supported by the Embodied Healing Group Call

01:56 Introduction

04:07 Opening — Our Story Together, Synchronicities

06:04 Manifestation through Meditation & Prayer

08:26 What is interesting for Bianka now?

10:46 Half German & Half from the South: Learning about the History & Untold

14:48 Healing Trauma to finally enjoy the moment

14:48 Safety on a Road Trip

16:11 Deep Desire to know the Truth & Story

17:24 Markers & Acknowledgement can be Healing

19:07 Contextualizing Mistrust, Safety Issues Makes Sense in the Past

22:06 Someone Else’s Fear

25:59 Bianka’s Experience with NARM

27:17 Attuning to Others — Good Skill for a Therapist — Breaking the Bubble to find Self Again

30:03 What NARM could do what Traditional Therapy couldn’t

33:35 How does NARM work? Understanding the process helps in healing.

35:18 Enjoying the Ride and Pendulating to a Fear Moment — It’s part of the process

37:27 Working with Agency in NARM / Performance Anxiety before the Show

39:57 Noticing Flaws and letting go of Achieving Perfection

42:15 What brings Bianka joy right now?

43:53 Appreciating what’s close & Forest Bathing

43:53 Forest Bathing

46:25 Supervision Meetings Outside between Bianka and Candice

47:27 Too Much Screen Time — Switching it up with Nature

48:06 Thanks & Gratitude

48:50 Bianka’s NARM Workshops and Training Offerings

50:39 Where can you find Bianka?

51:19 Outro

52:40 Biankas NARM Experiential

53:06 Embody Newsletter

53:32 Connect with Me

54:37 Gratitude

Disclaimer: May not be suitable for all audiences, contains sexual content.

We are always manifesting something, but how do we manifest what we desire? In this episode, I explore the key to manifesting what you desire — finding the map to YOU and surrendering to your deepest, truest, clearest Self. I also share a true and vulnerable story of a recent flow and manifesting experience, discuss how we can’t be anything in the world; we can only be ourselves and offer a healing experience of embodying a time you feel most like yourself, touching into your desires, and resolving unworthiness and fears.

 

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📝https://candicewu.com/manifesting

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Newsletter & Embody Community

💌 https://candicewu.com/embody-community

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Follow Candice on Instagram

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Sponsored by my Online Group Healing Sessions

Learn about how to feel more embodied so that your dream world can thrive! Here’s a link to three classes that are on Skillshare to support you in feeling more grounded and developing your inner world so that you can remember your dreams and glean dream wisdom. With this link you’ll receive two months free on Skillshare Premium.

Learn more at CandiceWu.com/dreamclasses

 

Show Notes

00:00 Intro

00:27 Disclaimer: Not for All Audiences

00:40 Intro

01:16 Sponsored by my Dream Classes on Skillshare

02:23 Welcome

03:02 Opening the Topic

03:17 Why This Topic?

03:44 Talking to My Healer and What I Want Right Now

06:24 DISCLAIMER: Pleasuring Myself for Deeper Manifestation

07:45 Am I Really Worthy to Have the Kind of Love & Life I Desire?

08:44 Feeling Turned on by Our Desires

09:35 DISCLAIMER END

09:35 Thinking: How Impossible?

10:02 Two Weeks Later and San Diego

11:40 How Did All of This Even Happen?

12:27 Second Manifestation Story: Choosing the Path of Joy in This Moment

13:06 Surrender to What is and Surrender to Who You Are

13:26 Embracing All the Pleasant & Unpleasant & What Comes

13:41 Getting Closer to What I Desire — Not What My Wounds Need

14:34 We Are Always Manifesting

14:34 We Are Always Manifesting

16:53 We Should Not Judge Our Own Believes as Good or Bad

17:19 “You Can have/do/be Anything” — FOMO

19:10 Bottom Line: Everything is Possible

20:39 in This Life, Maybe Not Everything is Possible (Human Body Limitation)

22:07 Manifesting: Getting to the Core and Loving Connection

23:17 Completing the Wounds We Are Trapped In

24:21 About Completion in the Body

25:49 Self Inquiry: How in Touch With My Essence, Core, and True Self, Am I?

27:46 Working With Our Vibration

28:50 Invitation to the Journey of Unfolding, Healing, Seeing, Loving, and So Much More.

29:25 Fear: Depending on the Outcome

30:32 Karma Yoga: Resolving the Wounding Process

32:21 Connecting With the Flow: We Are All Worthy, What We Desire is Possible.

33:16 the Desires That Are Not Worthy

33:50 the Desires Which Are Worthy

34:18 Our True Nature — Wholeness

35:00 Mention of “The Magicians Episode 7”

35:54 Experiential: Connecting With Who You Truly Are and What You Desire

49:12 Gratitude

49:37 DISCLAIMER: Pleasuring Yourself as an Exploration

50:37 Mention Embody Podcast Episode: Harmony

51:26 Mention Embody Podcast Episode: Worthiness

51:42 Mention Embody Podcast Episode: Parts Work

51:53 DISCLAIMER END

51:54 Thank You for Being Here

52:19 The Embody Podcast Overview

53:43 Embody Bi-Monthly-Newsletter

53:59 Wishing You LOVE

I’m delighted to share this podcast with Dr. Rahul Sharma where he offers his Sitar music live and shares about these fabulous topics of life.

  • How do we insist that we all belong?
  • Rahul’s CHAI Recipe — a yummy recipe for the Self and how to be in life
  • The spirituality of the Sitar and Raag
  • Being an artist as both a self-absorbed and selfless endeavor
  • His 22-year-old band Funkadesi’s intention: We Are One Family
  • Rahul’s family lineage story about double migration and how it informs how he SHOWS UP in the world
  • Bringing healing and opening challenging conversations with drumming
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) and leaning into the difficult places with the parts of ourselves
  • Bringing in the U-shape instead of a circle

Dr. Sharma is an accomplished and passionate Consultant, Artist, Experiential Learning Innovator, Psychologist, and an expert in the areas of diversity, equity, inclusion, leadership & growth. He is the founder of Funkadesi, an inclusive musical group. Whether working as a therapist, coach, consultant, performer, or producer — he recognizes expertise is needed in creating unique spaces for people to grow, produce, and flourish.

Rahul combines emotional intelligence, creativity, knowledge, transparency, honesty, and skill in assessing and intervening, resulting in effective and lasting solutions.

Grab a CHAI or a lovely refresher and tune in with us.

 

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📝https://candicewu.com/rahul

 Podcast Homepage

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Candice Wu Page on Facebook

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Sponsored by my Online Group Healing Sessions

The Embodied Healing Group Call sponsored the production and creation of this episode.

The Group call is a monthly group online to enjoy embodied support, empowering connection, and healing guidance! A truly powerful exchange of love and transformation for your contribution.

If you’re craving this kind of experience, I’ll support you in being at ease in your own body and spirit, tapping into your intuition and wisdom, and somatic and ancestral healing around anything you’re experiencing or challenged with each month.

Each Group Healing Session is limited to 4 people and is $55 a month per person.

Register on Patreon at the $55 level of contribution, visit https://candicewu.com/patreon.

 

Show Notes

0:00 Intro

1:09 Sponsored by My Online Group Healing Sessions

1:53 Opening & Background

5:40 Opening Conversation

7:23 Rahul’s Family Lineage Story about Double Migration

9:09 Sharing Rahul’s Grandfathers Story

15:31 What this story meant for Rahul’s self-discovery

19:09 Forgetting the Heritage — A Moment of not being from the US

20:01 Knowing where You come from through music

20:46 The Spirituality of Sitar

22:15 Rahul’s Sitar Improv

22:26 Rahul Playing the Sitar

25:32 Tuning into The Raag & Crossing Genres

28:18 Being an Artist A self-absorbed and selfless endeavor

28:54 Improvising, Self Absorbed Artist

30:02 Funkadesi — We All Belong to one Family

30:45 The CHAI Recipe

34:14 Insistence in Life— Make sure that things are on the table

35:40 Striving for Full Humanity For Everybody

36:42 Insistence — We need this!

38:12 Accountability on Social Media / Repeating the Cycle of the Hurt

38:52 Internal Family Systems — Acknowledging that there are many parts

40:29 Belonging — What have you found in the Band on Belonging?

43:54 A U-Shape vs the Circle — Inviting of the New

43:54 U-Shape vs Circle

46:16 Having many Healers in the Band

47:05 Where are you in the journey of your Self?

48:17 The Multi-Cultural Summit Band Story — A Crazy Adventure of Connection

53:01 Multi-Cultural Drumming for Difficult Dialogues — Domestic Violence Conference

55:55 Health Rhythms by Remote Drums

57:22 Soul Songs — What is the Movement of your Soul Song?

57:51 If you like it, use it!

58:45 Not Just Being Face to Face…

59:46 Make Music Together — And then have Conversations

1:03:21 Embracing Many of Our Parts

1:04:08 Thank you, Rahul, for sharing today

1:04:46 Anything Else to Share?

1:05:28 Rahul Playing the Sitar

1:06:53 Gratitude

1:08:05 Newsletter & Website